Dating Advice

Get the dating & social life you want - start to smoulder!

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Love Starts with You!

Are you tired of investing in dead-end relationships?

Do you struggle to set and enforce your boundaries?

Are you back in the dating game and don't know what the rules are now?

Have you spent so long building your walls that you don't know where the wall starts and you begin?


These are all fixable problems. Yes, they will take work. No there is no easy instant solution. But it's time...

Time to put your baggage in the bin and set it on fire.

Let the new you start to smoulder with the 2-month long program over 4 high-intensity sessions.

Start to Smoulder!

.. with one on one coaching.

There are so many obstacles and points for confusion and with all the new technologies it's only getting more confusing and there are more places to get lost in. Asking the hard questions can be confusing and confronting, especially if you don't even know where to start!

With a one-off chat to start with, we can cover all your questions, and just take it at a pace that you set. One off sessions generally last 1-2 hours and can be booked whenever you need them. 


Hey there, brave soul!


I understand first hand how hard dating can be. Really hard. Like, kick you in the kahunas and take your dog hard. But it doesn't have to be. 


I am here to help you.

I have done the hard yards around the dating arena, and I have listened to all the stories and read all the books... in other words, I've done the big work so now you and I can do the self-work together.


I will be honest, and I will approach every comment with an open mind.

There are so many obstacles and points for confusion and with all the new technologies it's only getting more confusing and there are more places to get lost in. Asking the hard questions can be confusing and confronting, especially if you don't even know where to start!


If you're feeling like you just aren't getting the responses that you want from people that you're dating and don't know why, or the same thing keeps happening, or you just really want to get the most out of a new stage in your life and have got a rough outline for a game plan in place but don't know how to start - then I can help.


Tailored to you.

In the same way that all relationships are different and everyone has different needs and tastes, all my sessions are tailored to YOU. So that we get you where YOU need to be. I am flexible in the way each session runs so that they suit exactly your needs. I can do single, one-off sessions where we cover all your questions and have a really big conversation to help get you started, or I also run intensive programs where I give you all the tools you need to get your interpersonal social skills and love life to where you want them.


Articles, videos and recorded sessions.

If you're not quite ready for an in-person coaching session then head on over to SEN Smoulder and have a read through my articles. I have free open access advice articles as well as more detailed, heavy-hitting, patron-only articles so that you can get started at a place that feels right for you. No cookie-cutter, out of the box solutions here. There is no single right answer because your experience is unique to you.


If you want an intensive overhaul to get you the responses and love life you want then have a look through the options I offer or give me a call and we can have a chat to see if we can find a solution that suits exactly what you need. 


If you have any questions give me a call.

Love you all! 


Group-based Workshops​

Meet some new people, have a bonding experience, get all your questions answered.

  • Men's Only Dating Workshop
    Sat, Jan 23
    SenOpsis Gallery
    Jan 23, 11:00 AM – 2:00 PM
    SenOpsis Gallery, 3/810 Hunter St, Newcastle West NSW 2302, Australia
    Ever wondered why you're not getting the responses from women that you want? Come along, ask the questions you can't ask your mates - and make some new friends while you're at it.
  • Communication in Dating Workshop
    Sat, Jan 16
    SenOpsis Gallery
    Jan 16, 11:00 AM – 2:00 PM
    SenOpsis Gallery, 3/810 Hunter St, Newcastle West NSW 2302, Australia
    When to text, how much to say, how to get the most out of your dating experiences.
Private Coaching & 1-on-1 Options​

Give me a call or send me an email to chat and see which option might be best for you.

Free stuff and premium content​

Check out the free resources below!

What other people are saying...

This workshop that I attended was very helpful in describing a variety of different view points on dating. Useful for visualizing how to approach different situations from a more realistic perspective. Sharing information in a group setting is more encouraging than relaying on old thought patterns and searching random webpages. 
I would recommend this workshop to people that like to develop their thoughts, feelings and confidence regarding social connections and relationships. I enjoyed meeting new people face to face who are in a similar social circumstance which helps with identifying pros and cons more easily with re-visualising yourself.

-- M. Male, 20s

Amazingly useful chat, thank you so much. So many things I hadn't thought of before!

-- B. Male, 40s

I had the pleasure of working with Milly today, and in the last few weeks leading up to today's 'Vision Workshop'. Milly is absolutely delightful to work with. She has wonderful energy and is a genuine. committed young woman who radiates love for what she does. She describes a commitment and passion for helping people meet and connect with each other. I would have no hesitation in recommending anyone who would love to work with this energetic, inspiring young woman. :)

-- Andrea Brockbank Ernst, I FEEL GREAT, Life Coach

Thanks Milly it was really nice of you to meet with me and give me some advice I'd love to see you again sometime soon thanks for the link to your group and I'll check it out thanks again. 

-- G. Male, 30s

Hey Milly, I've been reflecting on our chat last week... some of the stuff at the time I felt like I knew already, like about how women respond to different lines and types of words... but this week I've been changing the types of words I use when I'm talking to women and it's really shocked me the difference in responses I've been getting. I even have a date! Thanks for your help. I'll let you know how it goes!

-- M. Male, 40s

Thanks for last night, I was able to address many fears and absorb a lot of useful information from you, that is very consistent with my values. Very useful. I've also had some time to reflect on the tinder profile. I think it is a great first step to make, I just need to collect some recent photos and reflect on the three points you recommend for profile. I'm definitely going to struggle with the flirty bit! 

-- S. Female, 40s

Attending the intensive workshop was of high value to me. We learned about how to look for the non-verbal cues girls give. I found out how important my body language is and methods to help improve my body language. We even went through our online dating profiles and received outstanding advice on making ourselves more attractive to others online.   

-- A. Male, 30s

Hey Milly. Having a really fun time dancing at home tonight! Couldn't figure out how to ge my radio at home so I've got my nano set to shuffle instead of picking songs that I like to dance to. Most songs are familiar but it's still working cos I'm dancing to many songs that I wouldn't normally feel okay dancing to and trying out different moves etc. Thank you so much for all your help and advice - you've made a huge difference in my life already! I'm not at all terrified about next Wednesday night cos I refuse to let myself think about it haha.

-- S. Male, 40s

Thank you Milly I learnt so much and felt that I was on a date. 
Venue, drinks and nibbles and the workshop were beyond my expectations. You are an amazing mentor.

-- L. Female, 60s

Thanks for the chat last night Milly! I can't wait to put some of this into practice. I've been walking around all morning practising my power posture. lol.

-- A. Male, 20s

I didn’t quite say it properly last night, but I wanted to sincerely say thank you very much for the past month. I have really gained a lot. I appreciate the effort that you put in and your honesty an openess. It has pointed me in the right direction and I am not as “lost” as I once was in the things that I am doing and need to improve on.

-- B. Male, 30s 0420 941 945 | 3/810 Hunter St Newcastle West

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